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  • Queer, AuDHD, Confidence Coach Nicci Lou

    From Survival to Sparkle: Unlock Your Natural Brilliance 

    Transform Overwhelm into Action, Your Way, With Confidence Coach and Queer, AuDHDer Nicci Lou - Through Tools, Community, and Support. 


    Click the button for the FREE sign-up page to the Burnout quiz; to see how close to burnout you are. And get a plan personalised to help you move away from overwhelm and back towards where you once hoped life would lead you. 

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What would it look like to feel comfortable in your own skin? 

Forget reaching your travel goals, or building your own business. You're trapped in a lost state. And it doesn't feel great. I know you've tried it all, every vitamin, every hack. You've picked up diagnoses that don't fit and perhaps had operations that haven't helped. But don't give up yet! 


There is another way, something you haven't tried yet. It's YOUR way! Confused? No problem - let's start one teeny step at a time.  

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Living your best dreams with van life or having a family

Neurodiversity ICF Training

If you've struggled through coaching programs in the past, or discarded them altogether. You're not broken. They weren't made for you! 


A recovering perfectionist and people pleaser, it is important to me to provide you with the best. 


So I went to America to find an International Coaching Federation (ICF) approved course that trained me as neurodivergence specialist for the whole family. 

Ex nurse and marketer

Trained at Great Ormond Street I worked in some of the best hospitals in The World before my health deteriorated. After which,  I turned to my hobby to make a living  writing copy, which led to my working as a marketing coach for many years.  This unique background proves invaluable to clients. 

AuDHD, Queer, Mother to ND

As a late diagnosed AuDHDer I know what it is to navigate life with and without a diagnosis and have tools in my metaphoric toolkit that will help regardless as to how you want to describe yourself. A queer woman who married a man and ended up bringing up two neurodivergent children alone and at first with PTSD I know what it is to feel a shadow of yourself. 

Helping you to lose the overwhelm and live the life you choose

Whether you're looking for community, or not, low cost or free tools and mini programs to see you through the day. Or to unlearn the mask you put in place to protect yourself with the help of group or VIP coaching I've got you! 

One of the first Confidence Coaches in the UK to be trained in Neurodiversity through the ICF
Discover how close to burn out you are with this free quiz
A community of other remarkable brained women and non binary people - should you want it!

If you want to 'turn things around' for the LAST time

And get a handle on your fatigue, physical pain and overwhelm. Then why not start here with the 'are you on the brink of burnout' questionnaire? Where I'll review your results and send you personalised first steps to turn things around. 

Get Personalised first steps

Not ready to share any part of yourself yet, not a problem. How would you like to understand yourself and others better? Click the button to get spheres that you can fill out alone and in your own time. 

Understand others better

Don't take my word for it... 

"Nicci is amazing, she's so supportive, especially with understanding my autism and how it fits to me. I felt so comfortable with Nicci on every single session and every part of our communication was perfect. Honestly, really helpful! Would 100% recommend."




“Biggest take home [from the How to Unmask webinar] was the experience. The affirming validation…Thanks for an interesting and affirming talk”

“My biggest take away [from the How to Unmask webinar] would be I really like the engagement with your audience and different life experiences…. Thank you for your enlightenment and I am so happy to see how comfortable you are as a person and that is admirable!” 




I love this app, there's a real need for it. And Small is Smart is great, I'm just watching it and nodding along as everything just makes complete sense!

“Working with Nicci Lou as a Confidence Coach was really positive. The service is inclusive and I felt respected and autonomous. The admin side was very easy. I think for me, 

our work together was a catalyst to make me examine my 

own thought processes and behaviors” 




“Nicci Lou is supportive, encouraging and forward thinking. Our collaborative working helped me push through the

harder parts and I have really got some great things to 

hold onto. I wouldn’t change a thing from the 80% me 

to 20% Nicci Lou collaboration.. It was all super supportive with the right amount of connection out of session. Just 

very easy and super helpful”